Educating and caring for baby is not easy, but it can actually be a fun thing. Not infrequently the children do things that are not in accordance with your wishes to make you angry. When angry, there are three sentences that you should not say to a child.

1. "You make Mother angry!"
According to Erica Reischer PhD psychologist, this sentence or a similar sentence actually intends to make the child feel guilty for being. Objectives to deliver the child's parents are hoping the child change his nature. However, if you're really angry, say avoid future child.

"Reveal expression with a sentence like this exacerbates the situation and make the relationship with the child becomes negative. Worse, it makes the child feel inferior and feel anxious and scared," said Reischer.

2. "Why the hell are you?"
Reischer explained, this sentence makes children feel humiliated. Without you knowing it, you expect a child to change his attitude denagn shaming. Reischer call, parents should be aware there must be a purpose behind the annoying things that made the child.

"For example, is he expecting your attention, wanted the information, or related to the creativity of children. Rather than embarrass a child like that, you better say things that could make children better in the future," said a lecturer at the University of California Berkeley , the United States.

3. "You better ...."
Such sentences, said Reischer, make children feel scared. Therefore, the tone of this sentence implies that you express aggression and intimidation. Remember the child will grow up and be independent. If you say a sentence like this, the child will be retarded to be able to be independent.

"You actually will educate children in an intimidating manner. In the end, it will erode the trust and respect as an important element in your relationship with the child," said Reischer.
"Having said that, make sure you tell him why his attitude was not good. Then, do some kind of discussion about what he should do next time," added Reischer.