Educating and caring for baby is not easy, but it can actually be a fun thing. Not infrequently the children do things that are not in accordance with your wishes to make you angry. When angry, there are three sentences that you should not say to a child.
1. "You make Mother angry!"
According to Erica Reischer PhD psychologist, this sentence or a similar sentence actually intends to make the child feel guilty for being. Objectives to deliver the child's parents are hoping the child change his nature. However, if you're really angry, say avoid future child.
"Reveal expression with a sentence like this exacerbates the situation and make the relationship with the child becomes negative. Worse, it makes the child feel inferior and feel anxious and scared," said Reischer.
2. "Why the hell are you?"
Reischer explained, this sentence makes children feel humiliated. Without you knowing it, you expect a child to change his attitude denagn shaming. Reischer call, parents should be aware there must be a purpose behind the annoying things that made the child.
"For example, is he expecting your attention, wanted the information, or related to the creativity of children. Rather than embarrass a child like that, you better say things that could make children better in the future," said a lecturer at the University of California Berkeley , the United States.
3. "You better ...."
Such sentences, said Reischer, make children feel scared. Therefore, the tone of this sentence implies that you express aggression and intimidation. Remember the child will grow up and be independent. If you say a sentence like this, the child will be retarded to be able to be independent.
"You actually will educate children in an intimidating manner. In the end, it will erode the trust and respect as an important element in your relationship with the child," said Reischer.
"Having said that, make sure you tell him why his attitude was not good. Then, do some kind of discussion about what he should do next time," added Reischer.
Controversial reality show 'Born in the Wild' ready aired premiered in March next 215. Couples who participated in this reality show for the first recount their experiences giving birth in the wild 'wild' without the help of medical personnel.
'Born in the Wild' which is aired by Lifetime Network was showered with criticism when announcing this event in June 2014 and then. Critics call the event too dangerous for mothers in childbirth is not with the assistance of health experts.
"There are no hospitals, no drugs, no doctors, no word back," he says in the footage promotion reality show.
Really dangerous? Answering these criticisms, one partner and producer of the television show 'Born in the Wild', Yoshi Stone spoke. Stone emphasizes all participants plan their own reality show in the natural childbirth as what they want. And it also provides the medical staff if the couple wants.
"There was a hot debate from all sides, but the most important of all parties should be able to make their own decisions," Stone said as quoted HLN TV.
The couple Peter and Audrey Bird including this then make their own decisions. Their daughter who is now six months old and born outside their home in Alaska. Bird residence located in the city no access road, a lot of wild bears and is 150 miles from the nearest hospital. Husband-wife who also has a son moved to the area because they want a more modest lifestyle and their decision to give birth outside of the home is a decision that was not made up.
"Our first child was born at the hospital and it was to be an experience that we think we do not want anymore," said Audrey who decided not to bring the medical team (like the ones that are given the Lifetime team), while giving birth to her second child outside their home.
"I did it outside the house because I like to be there because they are outside the home that we spent most of our time," said 25-year-old woman.
The delivery process itself begins Audrey in her house. But after the delivery closer to the birth of a baby, he moved out of his house. He was in a tent that the floor has been covered with soft pads and blankets for comfort. There are also mosquito nets to prevent mosquito or other insect entry.
When the delivery process, Audrey and Peter contact the nearest medical team in case if there is a bad thing unexpected happened. The medical team has equipped itself with a variety of things such as oxygen tanks and surgical tools. In the end, their presence is not required. Audrey was able to give birth to her second child after birth for three hours.
Audrey is one of the success stories in the Born in the Wild. Lifetime party said to minimize the risk, they do not invite the mothers who previously had never given birth. Couples who sign up for this event should also include a plan of their child's birth. And pregnancy lived always monitored and evaluated by experts. Interestingly, all the couples who participated reality shows do not get paid for their participation. Tim Lifetime medical costs only bear the birth process.
Being a mother sometimes is exhausting. Especially if the mother is 76 years old. This is a real life story of The Oldest Mom who raise children. Omkari Singh, an Indian woman who holds the world record as the oldest mother in the world. Due to aging, a woman who gave birth to her son at the age of 70 years was admitted often hassles. Especially when preparing your child for school.
In 2008, Omkari had shocked the world as she had known gave birth to twins at the fairly old age. she did not conceive naturally, but through the process of in vitro fertilization. This is done because Omkari and her husband, Charan who is 89 years old, wanted to have a boy. His family was willing to sell buffalo and rice fields, as well as deplete the savings even take out a loan. Omkari decision to have a child in her old age had caused the pros and cons, both in the area of origin and in the mass media.
"I thought if I gave birth to a son, I would be like a mother most. Without the boys, as there is no life for me. Because, who will inherit this house if I had no son," he told the Daily Mail.
Unfortunately, one of the twins are female, Basaat, died at the age of four years. But his son, Akashvani, is still healthy even entered elementary school.
As with most small children, Akashvani, is an active boy. No wonder, if the mother often feel distress when keeping. "I can not bathe him correctly. I was in trouble when the clothes wear them. It's hard to run when fed a meal," said Omkari.
Even so, the mother of three children feel happy to be blessed with a son in old age. Moreover, the presence of a boy into a family dream. Previously, Omkari and her husband have two daughters who have been in his 50s.
"I am very happy that I was a mother of a child aged six years. It is a feeling that can not be described, I hope my son can get married as soon as possible and we both could attend the wedding," said Omkari.
In 2008, Omkari had shocked the world as she had known gave birth to twins at the fairly old age. she did not conceive naturally, but through the process of in vitro fertilization. This is done because Omkari and her husband, Charan who is 89 years old, wanted to have a boy. His family was willing to sell buffalo and rice fields, as well as deplete the savings even take out a loan. Omkari decision to have a child in her old age had caused the pros and cons, both in the area of origin and in the mass media.
"I thought if I gave birth to a son, I would be like a mother most. Without the boys, as there is no life for me. Because, who will inherit this house if I had no son," he told the Daily Mail.
Unfortunately, one of the twins are female, Basaat, died at the age of four years. But his son, Akashvani, is still healthy even entered elementary school.
As with most small children, Akashvani, is an active boy. No wonder, if the mother often feel distress when keeping. "I can not bathe him correctly. I was in trouble when the clothes wear them. It's hard to run when fed a meal," said Omkari.
Even so, the mother of three children feel happy to be blessed with a son in old age. Moreover, the presence of a boy into a family dream. Previously, Omkari and her husband have two daughters who have been in his 50s.
"I am very happy that I was a mother of a child aged six years. It is a feeling that can not be described, I hope my son can get married as soon as possible and we both could attend the wedding," said Omkari.
Omkari are often mistaken for the grandmother of the youngest child was hoping he could see Akashvani grow up. But the grandmother of five grandchildren were not too worried about the fate of his son and husband when he died. Because there are two older sisters who can guard Akashvani.
Unpredictable weather could degrade the immune system and make us susceptible to diseases such as the cold or fever. For that, you need to boost the immune system by eating healthy food and maintaining enough nutrients.
Put aside taking supplements or drugs endurance booster from any medical drugs, you can do it in natural way as suggested below
1. Eat enough, get freshly cooked and easy to digest food. Avoid eating dairy products and wheat too much and substitute it with vegetables and fruits such as oranges, radishes, peppers, apples and strawberries.
2. Tea can help increase endurance because antioxidants. If you get bored with green tea, black tea or oolong, you can try to make your own herbal tea containing ginger, turmeric or cinnamon. For herbal tea, drink 3-4 cups a day.
3. If the start of flu or cold symptoms, relieve to make a drink that consists of a mixture of turmeric powder and honey. Mix together a cup of warm water and drink twice a day.
4. Almonds and sesame oil can be your shield to face the disease in rainy season. These two ingredients contain antioxidants and vitamin E, which is not only good for the skin but also increase endurance.
5. Do not forget to regularly exercise, but avoid activities that are too heavy or excessive. Yoga and Pilates effective to increase endurance, as well as jogging. In addition, exercise is also beneficial makes the mind more relaxed.
6. Avoid the consumption of frozen foods, processed and cold drinks. At the moment the weather is uncertain, where extreme hot weather can suddenly turn into a cold body will require more whole foods and drinks warm rather than sausage, smoked beef or burgers.
7, Get enough sleep but not overdone. Sleep is important to revitalise your body. Quality sleep help us rejuvenate in the morning and recharge our energy to do daily activities. But not overdone it since it will counter the metobolism and make us tired rapidly.
Put aside taking supplements or drugs endurance booster from any medical drugs, you can do it in natural way as suggested below
1. Eat enough, get freshly cooked and easy to digest food. Avoid eating dairy products and wheat too much and substitute it with vegetables and fruits such as oranges, radishes, peppers, apples and strawberries.
2. Tea can help increase endurance because antioxidants. If you get bored with green tea, black tea or oolong, you can try to make your own herbal tea containing ginger, turmeric or cinnamon. For herbal tea, drink 3-4 cups a day.
3. If the start of flu or cold symptoms, relieve to make a drink that consists of a mixture of turmeric powder and honey. Mix together a cup of warm water and drink twice a day.
4. Almonds and sesame oil can be your shield to face the disease in rainy season. These two ingredients contain antioxidants and vitamin E, which is not only good for the skin but also increase endurance.
5. Do not forget to regularly exercise, but avoid activities that are too heavy or excessive. Yoga and Pilates effective to increase endurance, as well as jogging. In addition, exercise is also beneficial makes the mind more relaxed.
6. Avoid the consumption of frozen foods, processed and cold drinks. At the moment the weather is uncertain, where extreme hot weather can suddenly turn into a cold body will require more whole foods and drinks warm rather than sausage, smoked beef or burgers.
7, Get enough sleep but not overdone. Sleep is important to revitalise your body. Quality sleep help us rejuvenate in the morning and recharge our energy to do daily activities. But not overdone it since it will counter the metobolism and make us tired rapidly.
